HELPING OTHERS, HELPED ME

As I have mentioned in prior blogs, I became pretty active in my church after mother and Rick’s deaths’ in 1997. One thing that I did to help myself deal with my loss was to start a Hospital Ministry. I would take snacks and grief pamphlets to the different waiting areas at the 2 hospitals in town. If there was family there waiting, I would offer to pray with them and put their family member on our church prayer list.

I met many people whom today are still my friend. By focusing on helping others who were dealing with grief, loss, and tragedy, I took my focus off of self and offered myself in service to others. Honestly, it was an awesome plan had I only processed my own grief too instead of avoiding it or pushing in deeper in my heart.

Looking back now I can see how my biggest area of struggle is now an area of my mission work. This is normally the case. Whatever we learn to overcome ends up being an area of strength for us. I have had to face lots of death and tragedy in my past but I was able to have insight and understanding from my experiences to help others be able to navigate the valleys easier than I had.

I have learned that part of my mission is assisting souls with transition from one density to another or from this lifetime to the next. Most of this work is done in astral or journeying. I am still learning and growing in this work.

Hopefully, you will see from my experiences it’s best to learn how to process loss; so called death of a love one. Whatever your emotion feel it then release it. Avoidance is never the answer.